Get an Sexy Underwire Chemise and be a Dream Girl!

If you’re like me, you’ll go to great
lengths to charm your boyfriend with a sexy surprise.  I’ve done this more than
once, and it’s been rewarding—for both of us.  Cooking dinner in nothing but a
mesh corset and thong, hiding a garter belt under a suspiciously frumpy skirt,
or going completely panty-less are all tried and true tricks sure to get a nice
rise.  But for a risqué rendezvous which included dinner, drinks, and a hotel
room, I wanted something new.

What’s
underneath often dictates what a woman wears on the outside.  No different for
me.  My boyfriend prides himself in having a girlfriend who dresses carefully,
right down to her panties.  For this occasion, I chose an underwire chemise—you
know the kind, short and cute, constructed of lace, mesh, or satin, but with
that extra little push to the bust line which makes the figure so much more
appealing.  This one, from Dreamgirl Lingerie, was a little slip of
nothing—perfect for laying seamlessly in wait for the moment my boyfriend would
decide to pounce.

I tried on several outfits over the
chemise—most worked.  One, which would have been perfect for a club starred the
chemise as a base, and I shimmied into a skirt and shrug sweater, completing the
ensemble with boots.  From the outside, the chemise appeared to be a
tight-fitting tank.  Not appropriate for this occasion, but I could definitely
use it another time!  The next outfit involved a slinky pair of flair-leg black
pants.  Again, I used the chemise as a tank (but didn’t need a bra!), and topped
it off with a cardigan that I left open a little at the neckline.  The chemise
peeked out the bottom and showed off a perky bosom.  However, that was out too,
as I had promised to wear a dress to dinner.  I chose a black, unassuming
garment—classic, elegant, form-fitting.  The straps of the chemise were hidden,
and the rest of it clung to me like a naughty secret.  I had a winner.

When I met my boyfriend for dinner and he
slid his hand up my thigh, his fingers met the smooth edge of the chemise.  I
smiled—the secret was almost out.

The qualities I liked most about the
Dreamgirl chemise included its (literally) sheer versatility.  Not only
does it work well alone in the bedroom or as a sweet little nighty, it can also
be incorporated into evening wear.  It’s a flirty fashion statement any way you
wear it.  It’s smooth, comfortable, doesn’t show under clothing, and gives your
breasts the support lacking in other chemises.  It isn’t necessary to wear a bra
in order to wear this chemise under clothing—and it’s fun to let a little of it
show.

Add an underwire chemise to your wardrobe
and get creative.  You and your partner with both enjoy it!

Lingerie & A Fat Chick?

Lingerie isn’t just for those skinny ladies
that blaze catwalks in Europe or those women jumping up and down exercising on
the tube, lingerie is for fat chicks too! I know because I am a fat chick and I
love lingerie…what’s even better?

Men love women in lingerie!

Lingerie is made in plus sizes, in some
pretty steamy styles and shopping online is the best way to find all of the plus
size lingerie any woman would love. Ten years ago I began looking for lingerie
and you would think that lingerie shop owner would carry a size 18 right…wrong!
That shop isn’t there anymore and that’s probably why.

Then I relied on discount stores, you know
all those stores that end in –mart! Which honestly some of the items they
carried were cute but they were cheap and didn’t last very long. I’m sure if
you’ve ever purchased anything from these places, you know what I mean. Lingerie
from these discount stores just doesn’t last and at times I wondered where they
got the models from to make those cheap pieces of lingerie because the stuff I
bought never flattered my curves!

The one day I came across a website full of
plus size lingerie and I almost didn’t place an order, I saw this icon that said
“contact us” so I e-mailed them with a size question. To may surprise just ten
minutes later I checked my e-mail and customer support had e-mailed me back to
give me exact measurements.

My very first order was a beautiful long off
white satin gown with adjustable shoulder straps that came with a sheik satin
and lace coat that matched. My husband actually picked it up from the post
office but he had no clue what is was because it didn’t have the words
‘lingerie’ plastered all over it and it was very discreet, it looked like a
normal package would. Ever since that day, I’ve ordered online and I’ve been so
glad because I have lingerie, nice lingerie!

I’m a curvaceous woman and there are parts
of my body that I want to accentuate, there’s lingerie made just for me thank
God! There are days when I want to wear lingerie just for me because I feel
feminine, days I want to show how sexy I feel or days when I just need to feel
sexy because we all have those days when we don’t feel so sexy. I have found
that by wearing just a simple pair of lacy panties has actually lifted my
spirits and made my day better, panties are just one of my own weaknesses.

I have thongs probably for every day of the
year, curve enhancing cheekies that my hubby loves and all kinds of bras too.
All of them I ordered online, I’ve even made friends with a few of the site
owners to get some attractive discounts but shhh… don’t tell anyone that!

My husband loves the fact that I wear
lingerie and that we can spice up our love life, I’ve even ordered some delicate
things for him! I have one set that’s a little racy you could say and my husband
was shocked when I threw it on, so was I! Who says I can’t wear a navy blue
corset with matching thongs? My hubby tells me I can wear those any day of the
week after the fun we’ve had with those. I hate to admit this but I wore them
under a dress to a funeral once, my hubby put his arm around me and he felt
something familiar…he said, “what are you wearing under there?”

We left early!

The fact is lingerie is made for every woman and it’s an
old boring cliché to think that lingerie is something that thin women are only
entitled to. My advice to any woman who is looking for something to liven up the
wardrobe is to grab a few nice pieces of lingerie, just don’t let it turn into a
shopping hobby like mine has become unless you fall in love with lingerie too!

By: Lisa Gonzalez

Intimacy, What is It Really?

Simply put, intimacy is more than sex or
making love. It’s more than the physical or even emotional connection you feel
with your partner. Intimacy involves a soul connection between two people.

While instant chemistry can be exciting and
thrilling, the chemistry that makes marriages work usually grows over time. This
special chemistry between two people involves excellent communication and self
sacrifice more than physical attraction. It takes trust, patience, and
willingness to talk and to listen.

With greater intimacy, married partners can
have a more satisfying and fulfilling romantic life. They can learn what pleases
each other. For example, your wife may not like flowers all of the time. She may
desire a massage, or a well cooked meal. Or your husband may not want the latest
fashionable sweater. It’s a clean car or your full attention, he desires most.

Being able to express what you want is
important and genuinely listening to your spouse are key factors in building an
intimate romance. Unfortunately, these skills aren’t fully developed in most
marriages, so as the saying goes: “Married people can be some of the loneliest
people in the world.”

What generally inhibits partners from
building deeper relationships with each other?

Cary Barbor writes, “One partner (often the
woman) will fight to break down defenses and create more intimacy while the
other (often the man) will withdraw and create distance. So the “dance of
intimacy” follows: If the woman gets too close, the man pulls back. If he moves
too far away, she pursues, and so on.” — Finding Real Love – Intimacy and
Alienation, Psychology Today (Jan 2001)

She also comments that we often try to
recreate and fulfill our childhood desires through our marriage partners. We’re
attracted to people because they remind us of our parents (OR what we wanted our
parents to be). When we realize that they are too much like our mother or our
father, we become frustrated, communication breaks down, and we build
self-protecting “walls”.

So how can you grow in intimacy with your
marriage partner? Here are some keys to unlock the mystery of deeper intimacy.

Determine what you really need out of the
relationship. Is friendship more important than financial stability? Or must the
bills be paid on time even if your spouse doesn’t have much time with you? Can
you sacrifice long conversations for more affectionate behavior? Or do you need
to talk things out no matter how long it takes? The list can go on.

Determine what your spouse really needs. At
first your husband or wife may be reluctant to share what he or she needs. They
may have never really thought about it in an organized fashion. Maybe it would
help to have him/her write down his/her desires when he/she is relaxed. Some
suggestions: do a really nice deed for your partner like, drawing a warm bath or
cooking a nice meal. Then ask them to take the time to think about what they
need in the relationship.

Make an effort to change your behavior
everyday. If your partner needs more space, draw back a little. If they need
more of your time, tune out any distractions and pay attention to your spouse.
You may start with fifteen or twenty minutes with no TV, phone, computer, radio,
etc. and then gradually increase your time to one to two hours of uninterrupted
time per day.

Finally, take care of yourself. If you
are frazzled, you won’t be a fun person to be around. Make sure that you have
your own “me” time everyday where you can pray, meditate, and take care of your
personal needs. Whether it’s writing in a journal, reading a good book, giving
yourself a manicure, or just vegging out, do it. You and your spouse will be
happy you did.

Keishia Lee-Louis is the Editor and
Publisher of
http://married4good.blogspot.com

(launching November 2005). Her work has appeared on iVillage.com,
BibleResourceCenter.com, and in numerous other printed publications.

Currently, she lives with her husband,
daughter and son. She’s writing a book on marriage and relationships which will
be published Spring 2006.

If you’d like to see
more of her work, visit

http://married4good.blogspot.com

Bonding With Your Partner – Without Candles, Wine Or Lingerie!

By Margaret Paul, Ph.D.

Summary: Many partners attempt to bond with candles, wine or lingerie, only to find their time together feeling flat, empty and passionless. In this article, discover what really creates bonding, intimacy and passion with your partner.

A journalist interviewed me regarding intimacy in relationships. One of her questions was, “What are some of the easy ways in which husband and wife can bond – without candles and wine and expensive lingerie?”

Easy ways? Well, it depends on what you mean by easy!

Bonding has nothing to do with candles, wine and expensive lingerie. It has to do with INTENT. In any given moment we are in one of two possible intents:

The intent to have control over getting love and avoiding pain

The intent to learn about being loving to ourselves and to others

Virtually all of us have learned many ways of trying to have control over getting love and avoiding pain. We learned these protective behaviors when we were children, and as adults we unconsciously continue these learned controlling behaviors, such as anger, criticism, withdrawal, resistance, or compliance. For most people, these protective, controlling behaviors have become automatic and habitual. As soon as any fear is triggered, we automatically protect against the fear by arguing, blaming, attacking, judging, shutting down, resisting, or giving in. In relationships, the fears of rejection and engulfment – of losing the other or losing ourselves – generally underlie our protective behavior.

In a relationship, if one or both partners are closed, protected, controlling, then they cannot emotionally connect with each other. No matter how much time they spend together with candles, wine or expensive lingerie, the connection will not be there when one or both are closed and protected. Ironically, when the intent is to get love or avoid pain, what we create is a lack of love and much pain. Our intent to control brings about the very things we are trying to avoid with our controlling behavior.

Our own intent is the one thing we do have control over. We do not have control over another’s intent to be open and loving, but we do have control over our own intent to be open to learning about what it means to be loving ourselves and to others. However, it takes both people being in the intent to learn for partners to emotionally bond.

If both are open to learning, then they will be emotionally available to each other and can bond with a touch, a smile, or a kind word. Bonding has to do with the energy between them, not with anything external like candles, and the energy comes from their intent. A controlling intent creates a heavy, dark, hard, closed-hearted energy, while the open-to-learning intent creates a light, soft, open-hearted energy.

The big challenge in relationships is to stay open to learning about loving. Because we automatically and unconsciously revert to our protective, controlling behavior in the face of fear, being open to learning needs to be a conscious choice. Developing the ability to make a conscious choice regarding your intent is a learning process. The hallmark of higher consciousness is being able to choose your intent each and every moment, even in the face of fear.

When relationship partners are both able to reliably choose to be open to learning about loving themselves and each other, they create a sweet and safe environment for their love to flourish. Then candles, vacations, and lingerie can enhance their experience with each other – the icing on the cake.

Easy ways to bond? Staying conscious and open to learning is not easy! The concept is simple, but doing it is far from easy. Yet devoting yourself to learning to stay open to learning in the face of fear may be the most fulfilling and rewarding experience in your life!

About the Author: Margaret Paul, Ph.D., best-selling author of eight books, including “Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You” and co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding healing process. Learn Inner Bonding now! Visit her web site for a FREE Inner Bonding course: http://www.innerbonding.com or email her at mailto:margaret@innerbonding.com. Phone Sessions.

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I Bought Some Sexy Knickers the Other Day.

The first thing I should do is introduce myself, or at
least tell you that I am a man. That’s right, I too suffer the stony silences
that accompany requests for lingerie from my partner and I always tell myself
I’m going to do something about it. I’m finally going to get the nerve together
to walk into that lingerie shop in town and buy the sexy silk number that’s
hanging in the window. I’ve even made it as far as the door on two occasions
now, but that’s as far as I’ve made it: until the other day that is.

It was a beautiful Monday evening and I was spending my
time surfing the Internet and lazily looking at a few different sites when an
advert for lingerie caught my eye. Why hadn’t I thought of this before? I buy
virtually everything off the Internet but not lingerie. I clicked the button
with a smile on my face, but still had to stop the nervous looks over my
shoulder to make sure no one saw me enter. After a minute or two of looking
around I realized I was free to peruse at will and find the perfect outfit that
would not only make her feel happy but me as well.

That Monday night I learnt a lot, not only from looking at
the Internet lingerie site but also by rifling through my partner’s underwear
drawer. If she had come home early from her girls’ night out I may have had some
awkward questions to answer but she didn’t so I was left in peace to find her
size and the kind of thing she likes to wear. I learnt a lot that night, but in
particular I learnt two things. Lingerie shopping on the Internet is not a scary
thing; certainly not as scary as a ‘proper’ lingerie shop and I also learnt that
the easiest way to find out a woman’s size is to look.

Two days later and there was a knock at the door. I
answered to the postman holding a brown box. Thoughts started racing through my
brain and the social anxiety began to creep back into my head. He must know what
it is, he’s holding it right there in front of him. I hurriedly signed his
little sheet with my own name although I did consider using a pseudonym for a
few minutes but I didn’t want to have to stand up in court and explain my
fraudulent activities arose because I was signing for lingerie. After all what
the jury and the judge and the gallery full of laughing spectators think of me
then?

As I slammed the door shut and wiped the sweat from my head
I noticed that the packaging was brown. It was all brown, apart from my name and
address. There was no identifying guilty label that might indicate I was a man

buying lady’s underwear. When she came home from work my partner was more than

a little happy with the surprise I bought her, in fact I think it bought me more
brownie points than 4 night’s out. After all this time I’d finally bought her
some lingerie. Granted it did take me some time to convince her I wasn’t having
an affair, but once that was over she was very grateful. I’ll be buying more
lingerie real soon.

How a Sexy, Underwire Chemise Changed My Life

I was having a one of those frumpy, dreary, never-gonna-end days and needed a fast pick me up. On the way to the coffee shop, I noticed a new lingerie store.  I’d never been big on lingerie before, but something about the way I was feeling made me stop.  I’d put on a little weight and had been feeling down and sometimes when I feel that way, I like to shop.  That is exactly what I did.

The day I stopped and bought lingerie changed my life forever. I bought a sexy, underwire chemise that day.  It was sapphire blue and came down to my knees. It was low-cut, but no so bad that everything hung out.  The amazing thing is that when I went home and tried it on, I felt instantly like I’d had a jolt.  And I didn’t even buy the coffee!  I wore it around the house that night while doing my daily cleaning and I was amazed at the difference.  Not only was I comfortable, but I kept imagining someone peeking through my shades and thinking I looked sexy.  Crazy, I know, but it was just what I needed.

The next day I went out and bought a few more.  I now where them under my dresses, around the house, and to bed. I love the feel of the satin on my skin and it makes me feel like the most desirable woman on the earth. Overall, I just feel more confident in myself.

Of course, I think my husband likes this change in me, too!  Wearing these sexy, underwire chemises has brought a spark back into me and my marriage.  I just can’t wait to go buy more.

By P. S.
Harmon

Gay Men And Women – How And When To ‘Come Out’?

By Sharon A

Worldwide, as we speak, men and women, young and old, are agonizing on their private secret: ‘I’m gay, and I can’t hide it anymore’. People who just want to live a life as a regular couple with someone of the same sex. Many of us have family and friends who consider homosexuality as ‘abnormal’ or ‘wrong’, so it’s natural for people who are gay to have reservations about telling those special to them how they feel.

The first thing to consider: who NEEDS to know? You aren’t obligated to tell anyone it doesn’t concern. Who you tell comes down to several things. Firstly, who do YOU feel you want to know? Who do you want to talk to about your love life, your attractions, your relationship ups and downs? These people will be close friends, possibly family, too.

Consider your current lifestyle. Do you have a partner now? If so, is it becoming more important to share them more in your daily life, with other people special to you? Often, people in love, straight or gay, want that person involved in their life more as a relationship grows. When in a relationship, we like to bring our partner to special occasions, celebrate, have support during the bad times. Maybe you wish to live together, and have realized that those around you will need help understanding this. Some people choose to tell their loved ones they are gay because they don’t wish to feel that they are ‘hiding’ anymore. These are all ‘turning points’ that will lead to a person wanting to let others in their life know that they are gay.

There are times when a person decides to wait for an easier time to tell loved ones, particularly family. It’s sad to admit, but oftentimes true that families can have a harder time dealing with the news that a family member is gay. Attending high school can make ‘coming out’ an extremely stressful situation. Students may be fearful of being teased or not accepted by their peers. No student should be treated badly because they are gay, obviously, but it consider this – if you are at school and aren’t dating, is it anyone else’s business? If you’re fortunate to have some very mature friends, of course, tell them if you think it will help you.

Some high school students find they prefer to hold off telling family until necessary, perhaps until they are older, have left school, or even have left home. This gives parents time to see that children have grown and matured, and it isn’t a ‘phase’ or something they can try to stop. There is of course, always the exception, and there are a lot more open minded parents around, whose reaction could surprise you.

Another common situation is homosexuality in heterosexual marriage. This can be extremely stressful for both husband and wife. One person feels trapped in a lifestyle that is no longer making them happy. A gay husband or wife can suffer a lot of guilt over the way they feel, to the extent of staying in the relationship as a way of ‘making it up’ to the other partner. If this is you, ask yourself: are you helping your husband or wife, in holding off dealing with your feelings and telling them? Not only are you prolonging your happiness, but theirs too. They’ll need time to deal with the marriage’s end, and you should make this as easy and painless as possible. If this means ending the marriage sooner, then it’s possibly the best way. The longer you stay married, the more the chances are your partner will grow more attached. If your spouse truly loves you, they’ll only want your happiness. Yes, they’ll miss you, want to stay married, but few people want to keep someone in a marriage if they’re unwilling.

Many gay people divorce their husbands or wives and stay best friends. But of all the people who need telling, husbands and wives rank highly! Or, at least, if you don’t tell them you are gay, they deserve an amicable split.

The next suggestion may sound trite, but still bears mentioning. Why not talk to a counselor? It can be ‘practise’ for telling your loved ones. What’s great about counselors, is they can help you work out what’s the right thing for you to do, and how to say it best.

Which brings us to the next question– what to say? Honestly? Whatever you want! But, a good guideline is to start with why you are telling them. If you are single, you might just want to say that you prefer dating people of the same sex. If you are in a relationship, you could just let the person you are telling know that you have a boyfriend/girlfriend. It helps if you make a short simple statement to start with, then give the recipient a moment to process this news.

Some people you ‘come out’ to will say, ‘I knew it all along!’, ‘good for you!’ or, ‘so?’ These people are a breath of fresh air, and will make you wonder why you didn’t tell them sooner. Others will have questions, some may be angry or upset. Please remember, that although you need all the love and support from these people, that many people have been raised in families that taught homosexuality is ‘wrong’. Go in with a willingness to work through the feelings with your loved ones. For parents, it can be a shock, for the reason that they may feel scared about not having grandchildren, even if they accept homosexuality.

It isn’t acceptable, however, for anyone to abuse you. If this happens, remove yourself from the situation as quickly as possible. Let tempers calm down, protect yourself from others’ anger. Realise people often calm down and accept things with time. Some people may never accept this, and it’ll be your decision how to handle those people.

Above all, be true to yourself! It’s your life, and you’re the one living it. As mentioned, you may wish to wait, and there are many good reasons for doing this. However, there’ll come a time, when you’ll wish to live and love the way you want to. Take time, and you’ll always find a way. If you know who you want to inform you are gay and why, you’re halfway there! All there is to do now is to wish you the best of luck. People can surprise you with their acceptance, and people who are gay are often overwhelmed by the freedom this experience can bring.

About the Author: Sharon is the owner of the free dating site, http://www.unlocklove.com

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Change How You Feel With a
Sexy, Underwire Chemise

Okay.  You plan to do it this time.  You’re going to buy yourself something sexy.  You just haven’t decided what to get.  You normally wear a basic slip under your dresses, a bra, and your panties.  You never think much about splurging on lingerie.  You’re quiet and well-mannered, why would you need something sexy?  What should you get?

What you need is a sexy, underwire chemise. Don’t think you can’t wear one because you’re not going out dancing!  These can be worn under your everyday dress.  Just think how sexy you will feel and no one will know what you have under that plain, old denim jumper.

These underwire chemises come in many styles and colors and you are sure to find one that will compliment how you look and feel.  A woman’s spirit is lifted immediately when they feel desirable.  Imagine feeling that everyday!

Don’t worry about your size, as these chemises come in a variety of sizes and styles to compliment your figure.  Add a satin robe as a cover up and you can even wear it around the house and kids.  The soft feel of satin on your skin as you cook dinner should leave you feeling great.

You also don‘t have to worry about the droopy, braless problem, as the underwire is going to give you plenty of support.    Go get one today and you won’t believe how different you will feel.

By Penny S. Harmon

Your Woman in Lingerie – How to Do it Right

Women love to receive sexy lingerie from their boyfriends and spouses.  It can be a big turn on for them to know that you picked out something just for them that they can wear for you as a treat.  When she knows what you think looks sexy, she will feel like you are opening up lines to talk about what you both want in your sex lives.  Women love fantasy, and knowing yours as well.  However, the prize of seeing your lover in a red nightie or black camisole, does not take away the fact that you need to figure out sizes and how to get the nerve to go into the lingerie department. Keep an open mind for a few moments and you will see that getting lingerie right does not have to be such a hassle or mystery.  There are options.  Before explaining, remember to keep your mind on the prize.  Your woman will be very excited that you have fantasized about her in whatever you have picked.  She will also feel even sexier, knowing that you know she will look good in it.  With these tantalizing factors to keep in the forefront of your mind, you can do some of the following to make the experience a little easier.

Figuring out her size may be what has kept you from buying her lingerie in the first place.  Do not fear.  You probably have most of the answers right there in her dresser, or hopefully, on the bedroom floor.  Take a quick peek at her bra size when she is in the other room.  A bra size can tell a sales associate a lot about your woman’s size.  Also, knowing whether she is a medium, a 12, or a petite size, can help too.  If you are really concerned about sizes because she has ingrained it into your mind that nothing fits her right, then take inventory from a skirt or pair of pants, a shirt, and a bra.  This will give the salesperson the exact information they need.  Or, you can use these measurements yourself to pick out something sexy.  If the size on the website says “M” and all you know is that she is a 6, then see if the site or another apparel site has a size equivalent chart of some kind, so you don’t have to guess.  Once you have the right size, you can pick out anything.  Whether it is a lacy bustier, or a slinky garterbelt, they will all look perfect on her.

You really don’t have to go into a store at all if you don’t want to.  The buying part can be as easy as a few clicks on the internet.  All the lingerie names you know have user-friendly  websites without all the paranoia of expecting to run into your son’s first grade teacher while you shop. Pick something that you think she would look sexy in, rather than worrying about if it is something she would pick for herself.  Remember, that she enjoys dressing sexy for you and wants to turn you on.  Picking out a few pieces, whether they are corsets, baby dolls, or nighties, will let her see into your fantasy mind, which is something she really wants to get into.  By the way, don’t worry about all the vocabulary of lingerie.  Pick something out by the picture and take their suggestions on separately sold accessories.  After you present her with your sexy gifts, let her know how much you want to see her in
them.  She will definitely feel good about your gifts, and so will you.

It’s All About Comfort: Men Who Wear Women’s Underwear

Most men wear the usual boxers or briefs.  They put up with discomfort of having their family jewels squished, trapped, and generally, feeling uncomfortable for the majority of the day. There are men, however, who have discovered the secret to comfort.  Wearing women’s underwear.

For women, comfort is the majority of the reason we spend so much money on undergarments.  There is nothing worse than buying a pair of underwear, only discover they are riding in places they shouldn’t.  Once uncomfortable, they are thrown in the discard drawer, never to be worn again, unless in an absolute emergency.

Men, however, do not have many choices in underwear in the men’s department.  Boxers or briefs?  Who cares? Either one is uncomfortable for them.  There are men out there, however, that take advantage of the women’s department.  There are more styles and more choices and the designers of women’s underwear have really stressed the point of comfort.

For a man wearing woman’s underwear, they never have to worry about having their private parts squished or pushed in an uncomfortable manner.  Women’s underwear will give them the support they need and provide comfort to their bodies.  No longer do they have to feel
like everything is hanging out or being squished between their thighs.  The men who have discovered this secret should be applauded.  Most women appreciate the fact that their men want the comfort.  It’s all about the comfort.  The pretty designs are just an extra added bonus.

By Penny S. Harmon

Article -The Color of lingerie.

This article is based upon Information gathered upon reading many articles on color and its emotional responses gathered around American culture other countries may have different beliefs an associations to color.

Black- Black is the most
controversial color it is actually the absence of color. To some the color black makes them think of death, demons, witches etc.. on the other hand signifies power, Formality and mystery. In fashion black has always been a favorite due to its slimming effects and adds a touch of sophistication.

Red- Red is a very intense & extreme
color, it gets attention immediately. Red symbolizes love, warmth, blood, heat, fire, passion. The color actually raises blood pressure and increases the appetite. Wear Red lingerie to  induces perceptions of Power, Happiness,
excitement, anticipation, desire, and energy.

White- Stands for purity and innocence, it also represents cleanness and  is used to convey that message by doctors, nurses, and hospitals. In general the color white is cool and invokes a cool, refreshing, light airy feeling in the clothing since.

Pink- Is the most romantic and tender
color, also the most feminine color. Pink automatically triggers thoughts of
little girls, bubble gum, Barbie ( basically everything sweet and nice). There
have been studies that suggest that pink surroundings can actually physically weaken a person. Wear Pink Lingerie to make your lover feel calm, tranquil, and softhearted.

Blue -Is the most popular favorite
colors to both genders. Blue Signifies wisdom ,trust, and loyalty. That is why
most police officers are dressed in blue & blue is the favorite color for job
interviews. Use cool Blue in your wardrobe to produce a calming effect. Darker Shades of Blue have the same
effects black.

Green- Is Symbolic of nature,
including rain forests, leaves, peace. also symbolic of luck, money, youth,
renewal, & hope. Green is neutral on the emotional scale but can evoke feelings of freedom & acceptance.

Purple-Is symbolic for royalty,
luxury, wealth. Purple does not occur often in nature some may feel it
artificial. However on the emotional side purple evokes feelings of passion,
romance and sensitivity. Purple seems to get attention due to the lack of seeing it often.

Yellow-Pure
lemon bright yellow is associated with cheerfulness and happiness but beware as this color actually hurts eyes to look at. Choose softer shades to ease the eye discomfort. Or Use Bright yellow in moderation in accessories  & trims. Do not completely over look this in lingerie though because it brings feelings playfulness and warmth & easy going attitude.

Orange is associated with warmth ,
contentment, wholesomeness & is most known to arouse the appetite. Orange may be a useful color for those couples whom like to eat together in bed  or enjoy adult edible products.

Brown- Earthy, woodsy, Neutral. Brown
Creates an ambiance of solidity ,strength and maturity. Studies have shown that men like this color more then women. Brown creates an open atmosphere for men.
Article -The Color of Lingerie.
Information on choosing Lingerie colors to entice your partner with an emotional response.

Plus Size and Sexier Than Ever!

Once slim and lithe, I am now “full-figured.”  I am also middle aged.  Even though I’ve been married a number of years, my husband is still my lover and best friend.  I want him to continue to think of me as the girl of his dreams.  That isn’t difficult when I wear just the right piece of lingerie.  I feel sexy and fun.  I want to play, and so does he!

Regardless of my plus size, I feel feminine

and attractive whenever I wear a lacy chemise or the slinky smoothness of satin or silk against my body.  Worn under my clothes, it is a constant reminder that I am a desirable woman.  It teases my mind about things yet to come.  Worn as a partial outer garment under a jacket and skirt, it offers a subtle hint to my womanhood.  It suggests there is more to me than meets the eye.  Worn as sleepwear at night, it tantalizes the senses and flickers the flame.  It says “touch me.”

Sometimes I feel shy and want him to lead; I
wear something lacy in soft pink or white.  Other times I feel frisky and bold.

That’s when I wear a provocative black lace or red satin under wire bra and
matching g-string panties.  Sometimes I’m in between – ready and willing in a chiffon babydoll accented with a wisp of eyelash lace and lettuce hem.

Regardless of my mood, wearing an alluring scent and sexy lingerie makes me feel desirable and feminine.

I wear something that compliments me –
inside and out.  In a style that will accentuate my assets, in a color that

reflects my mood.  Like icing on a cake, just the right lingerie covers me with sweet softness, turning the ordinary into the delectable.  Anything becomes possible.

Never surer of who I am, or more aware of my
sexuality, being overweight doesn’t take away from my desirability or my
femininity.  Not when I continue to make the effort to look desirable and

appealing.  I am happy, confident, and more complete as a woman.  And sexy, attractive lingerie and sleepwear help keep me that way!

©Lori S. Anton

The Romantic Striptease!

By Marie Clare

Have you ever fantasized about being a stripper? Have you ever thought it would be cool to do a striptease for your lover? Well, guess what? You’re not alone!

Truth be told, many women have this same fantasy. Many more have even “busted a move” for their lover. Sound like fun? It sure is! Plus, the Romantic Striptease is an awesome way to show your lover just how sexy you’re feeling. And take it from me, he will agree with you 100%.

Of course anytime you remove your own clothes in front of your lover there’s sure to be “fireworks”. But lets do something special. Let’s treat your lover, let’s plan an actual Romantic Striptease.

So, what’s needed to make the Romantic Striptease a success? Let’s have a look.

First and foremost, as outline in my book “the Romantic Tips Guide” you do not have to be a professional dancer to do this. This is for fun between you and your sweetie. Enjoy the time together.

Next, is music selection. Keep in mind you and your partners taste. The music you choose needs to be a bit on the slow side. Not too slow and draggy, but slow enough so you will be able to take your time removing your clothes one piece at a time and really Tease.

Speaking of clothing, you’ll have to plan what to wear. And, you won’t need to go shopping either. Well…not unless you want to. It is best to start off fully dressed. After all it is called a “Strip TEASE”. Removing layers is much more fun, and exciting. A sexy dress, or blouse and skirt, choose an outfit that always turns your partner on. You know, the one where he just can’t keep his hands off you. Then for underneath that, choose a couple more things. A pretty camisole, over a sexy bra. On the bottom put a pair of sexy skimpy panties over a pair of thongs. Eventually you’ll be removing it all, one piece at a time. Remember, anything that drive’s your sweetie wild, and whatever makes you feel sexy and desirable is in order here. You can pretty much choose whatever’s in your closet for the outer layer. A good, “naughty” choice is always the schoolgirl look, or you could go for the button-down business look. A tie would later make a great prop. Just think about looping it behind his head to pull him into your breasts.

Then accessorize. This includes anything like glasses, hats, ties, as well as the all-important thigh highs, (or garter belt and stockings) and stiletto heels. Just make sure you can actually move around and dance in those stilettos. If you don’t have any in your closet, borrow a pair from a friend. Also long necklaces look amazing when you’re down to the bare essentials, plus long gloves and feather boas are great accessories too.

Place a chair some where in your bedroom where you will have easy access to move all around it. Of course it’s for your sweetie to sit on and watch as you dazzle him with your StripTease. Also, chill some of your lover’s favorite beverage. Wine or champagne would be great. You could have some fresh fruit like strawberries or grapes to feed your lover as you dance up a storm. Just remember to take it slow and easy.

When the time comes to do your Romantic StripTease remove one piece of clothing at a time, making sure to linger on each piece. Give it a try, I promise you and your lover will have great fun. Oh yeah and great sex as well!

Best Of Luck!

Marie Clare

About the Author: Marie Clare specializes in writing about Dating, Relationships and Romance. Check out her lastest eBooks plus reviews of the Best Online Dating Sites, FREE Articles, Tips and Advice at www.lifematesnow.com

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The Timeless, Ever Alluring Chemise

Nothing makes a woman feel more feminine and alluring than
wearing sexy lingerie.  When it comes to selection, make yours a provocative chemise.

A form hugging, under wire chemise compliments a woman’s
figure and flatters her bust line.  Worn under clothing it accentuates curves in all the right places.  Worn alone, it is exotic and tempting – making nighttime air crackle with excitement and desire!

Regardless of body size or shape, a chemise adds just the right combination of timeless charm and modern sex appeal.  All-around boning
will slim the middle, while balconette-style cups and wide shoulder straps will accentuate the cleavage for a subtle “come hither.”

Style and fabric selection says it all.  Spanish lace is
alluring and sweet, body-clinging lycra – smooth and sexy.  See through mesh or netting is bold and racy and leaves nothing to the imagination.  Or choose smooth silky satin for more modest sex appeal.

Available in a variety of colors and styles, a chemise
makes a fashion statement of its own, whether worn under clothing or alone.

Many chemise styles are appropriate as partial outer wear.  Topped with a skirt and matching jacket left unbuttoned, just the right chemise can be a striking fashion compliment. A silk or satin chemise worn under a filmy short skirt or flirty dress slacks is perfect for a night on the town, or a quiet candle lit dinner for two.

With so many styles to compliment every size and shape,
available in every price range, there’s no reason why every woman shouldn’t own at least one.  A chemise can compliment a wardrobe as part of office or everyday attire.  Or it can be a luscious peek-through to fulfill a lover’s – and your –night time fantasy fun.

The timeless chemise.  Forever alluring, feminine, and fun.

©Lori S. Anton

Straight Men and Their Lingerie

Bob wakes up in the morning
and goes to the kitchen to pour a cup of coffee that his wife made before leaving for work.  He then goes upstairs to shower and shave.  In getting dressed for his job at the office, he decides to go with the white lacy panties and matching camisole top.  He then puts on his trousers, white shirt, and jacket and takes his time choosing his tie, a blue one, with thin-white pinstripes.  He is all set to go and has completed his morning ritual.  Bob is a normal, straight guy who goes to work at the office and nobody suspects anything about his desire to wear women’s lingerie.  He is not gay.  He has been married for eleven years and has two children.  He has been wearing women’s lingerie for
almost ten years.

A lot of men state they get
started wearing lingerie as a joke.  They enjoyed how the lingerie made them feel, a combination of the feeling of the material against their bodies and feeling sexy.  There are some men who wear lingerie because it makes them feel naughty and they are doing something that is not “normal”.   For some men, the
lingerie simply brings a sexual rush to them and they want to feel like a sexual being.  To the male who wears lingerie, the lingerie is a link to the erotic.

For Bob, he started wearing
lingerie as a joke during lovemaking with his wife.  He had stripped the satin and lace chemise off her and threw it on himself.  She laughed and they made love with him wearing it.  To him, it was no big deal.  To her, she thought it was funny at first.  Later when he started doing this more often, it wasn’t
really a big deal.  Then she found out that he had been wearing her underwear.

She asked him outright if he was really gay and just hiding it.  He explained to her how wearing the underwear was really comfortable, prevented certain “things” from being squished and that he felt very sexual while wearing them.  His wife,Lisa, seemed to be okay with this and their lives have gone as usual.

Dave is also a straight,
married man and he enjoys the feeling of lingerie on his skin.  Unfortunately, Dave is not at a place in his marriage that he would feel comfortable telling his wife about his desire to wear women’s panties and lingerie.  According to
Dave, he likes the lingerie because it puts him in an erotic state of mind.  He was a teenager when he discovered the fact that just holding a piece of lingerie in his hands and smelling it gave him a feeling of excitement.   It wasn’t until he was out and living on his own that he bought his first piece of lingerie for himself.  When he met his wife, he had a whole collection but gave it up for
fear of being caught.  It was at her suggestion that he wear pantyhose to help him keep warm while working outdoors.  He enjoyed this and they did help him to keep warm.  Unfortunately, when his wife sees him wearing them now, she has a few derogatory remarks for him.  According to Dave, his wife has no desire to wear the things he finds very erotic and he now gets by with sneaking his wife’s lingerie on when she’s not home.

Mike, however, is a single
man that wears lingerie only for his own erotic pleasure.  He wears panties to places such as the doctor’s office, where the doctor and staff are female, as well as his female chiropractor.  This gives him pleasure to be seen in panties in an actual legitimate situation.  He started wearing lingerie for pleasure his
freshman year of high school when he raided a panty drawer while taking care of the neighbor’s dog.  According to Mike, their senior-year daughter was very sexy and his imagination took over.  Mike only wears panties and lingerie for sexual
pleasure and does not wear them on a daily basis.

According to Dr. Louanne
Cole Weston of California, from www.webmd.com, “…the fact that he likes to wear these clothes in no way makes him gay. Studies have shown that among men who enjoy wearing women’s clothing, many more are heterosexual than are homosexual or bisexual. In fact, percentage-wise, men who enjoy wearing lingerie seem to be more predominantly heterosexual than the general population. “  (1)

A fetish is when a certain
something, such as lingerie, is needed for sexual arousal or sexual
satisfaction.  However, a fetish is not a terrible thing.  If no one is being hurt from a particular fetish, there is not a need for any therapy.  There are men who wear lingerie that have that particular need in order to feel sexual.
Psychology has many views on how these fetishes come to be, however, the fact is that men wearing lingerie is not hurtful to anyone.  However, for the man who wears lingerie, discovery is fearsome.  Unfortunately, the married man always has the fear that if their wife finds out, their marriage will fall apart.
Generally, the first thought of their wife would be that they are gay.  This may require counseling for the wife to understand that just because he enjoys wearing lingerie, he is not gay or depraved.  It is simply an approach to their
sexual pleasure.

History shows us that there
were times that men wore more “feminine clothing” and even wigs.  While this has changed for men, women have become free to wear what they want.  It is now considered “normal” to see a woman is a business suit or even a tuxedo at formal affairs.   However, throw a pair of panties on a man, even if he is wearing them for comfort and support, or a pair of pantyhose on them for insulation from the cold, and society deems them to be gay or depraved.  Men wearing panties and lingerie is not uncommon; it’s just a well-kept secret.  There are even websites that are dedicated to this topics, as well as forums.   These sites give a “man with a secret” a place to talk to others and to give and receive advice on this issue.  Most men live with this secret their whole lives and never open up to their partner about it as they worry they will lose not only their respect, but
their marriage.

So, ladies, if you discover
a pair of panties in your husband’s drawer or car, don’t assume the worst.  He may not be cheating on you – he may be wearing them.  Men wearing lingerie can bring some excitement into your marriage and your sex life, so if you discover he’s wearing it, let him lead you into a new and exciting world.  You just might
like it!

1. http://www.webmd.com/content/article/43/1687_51051

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This groups goal is to encourage discussions of
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Topics may include but no limited to the following

Marital or girlfriend acceptance or non acceptance topics.

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Lingerie & Sex Appeal: Anytime!

Surprisingly with all of the advancements technology has given
us… some women still think that underneath the threads of everyday attire we can’t be sexy, but we can! You may not think that an sexy underwire chemise is a fair representation of ‘advanced technology’ but I beg to differ.

In the 50’s sex appeal
believe it or not was making huge statements, women everywhere were in fact sporting hot lingerie beneath their clothing and half of them would have killed for today’s underwire! Just ask my Grandma.

Flexibility is the biggest advancement and when it comes to an
underwire chemise, you can wear it under anything. An underwire chemise, sexy and sleek can be worn under your favorite lounge t-shirt, dresses and even to work under that savvy business suit.

You don’t have to run around half naked to feel sexy.

Then there’s the married woman, like me! We stay so busy,
kids, the home, pets, work, dinner, laundry and at the same time that we juggle all of the norm…we still find the time to keep those home fires burning. While it may not be suitable to arouse hubby by cooking dinner in fishnets and spiked heels with the kids waiting at the table too, it is appropriate to jump into
anything that’s satin.

Satin is sexy and it’s timeless!

The best thing about satin and lingerie is the choices
available in satin. Long satin gowns that accentuate a woman’s curves to shorter
renditions that offer the same curve hugging appeal or even baby dolls that may seem a little risqué. It’s whatever you feel comfortable in and that’s what lingerie is all about, there’s something for everyone.

Let’s face it, sometimes we feel sexy. Sexy doesn’t mean that
we have to break out a red sequined dress and gob make-up all over our faces to complete the look, but we can wear things that make us feel even sexier. I love the feel of my sexy undergarments under my clothes and I can feel extremely feminine when I want to. Amongst some of the items that are both flattering and sexy to wear beneath clothing, thongs are flexible too.

As hard as it is to believe…some women are yet to wear thongs!

Thongs are not dirty words and I’m not talking about summer
footwear either. I’m talking about mountains of sexy thongs that are available in a wide variety of styles and made from materials sure to please every woman.

I prefer to think of a thong as the ultimate booty shaper.

Panty lines have long been a problem for women and the fashion
industry has tried to remedy the problem coupled with tight undergarments that diminish the panty lines creating new problems. Thongs are a girl’s best friend especially when wearing tailored dress pants or clingy materials that without thongs would otherwise be hard to wear and look good in.

If you’ve avoided looking for lingerie for awhile then you
should definitely take another look because the lingerie of today is only
getting better and you can feel as sexy as you want, whenever you want!

Why Thin Women Envy Buxom Women

My best friend never knew it, but I always
envied her curves.  Me, rail-thin and shapeless couldn’t even fill out a
bra, let alone find one outside of the preteen department.  When we went
lingerie shopping together, I lived vicariously through her luscious breasts and
full backside. In department store fitting rooms, the skin pressing against lace
was so tactile in appearance, the straining satin sensuous.  I looked like a boy
in comparison to her—a little, prepubescent boy.  But she was all woman!

The sad thing was—she envied me.
Little scrawny me.  My jeans sagged in the bottom and necklines showed off the
expanse of flatness that was my chest.  When we primped ourselves for a night
out, her thighs held fishnet stockings in place underneath her skirt while I was
resigned to slacks.  Even her calves were rounded sexily—they looked beautiful
from behind when she walked in high-heeled shoes in the style that a 50’s
Hollywood star would wear.

And in fact, she did remind me of someone
out of a glamorous, by-gone era.  Like a Marilyn Monroe with slick black hair.

She once greeted me in long silk nightgown hemmed in feathers, the fabric
clinging to her breasts and draping off her thighs.

When we were seen together, I saw the
rubbernecking men ogle her as she swayed past.  She always said they were
looking at me—but she was wrong.  I was invisible in comparison!

One day, she asked me for assistance.  She
was ordering lingerie online.  There was a whole page of corsets—again, like for
someone out of a past era—open in front of us.  Some had laces, some snaps.

Some were long, some were straight, and some were curved.  Some had cut-outs at
the bust, some were boned, and some were made of fine, stretchy, see-through
mesh.  They were beautiful!

“Wow,” I breathed in awe.  “You could wear
any of them and you would look great!”

“I don’t know,” she responded, uncertain.
But she was blushing with pleasure.

We decided on one that would cinch her at
the waist and lift her breasts almost to her shoulders.  The day it arrived in
an unassuming-looking package, she waited for me to come over to help her try it
on.  Wearing only a skirt, she handed me the garment.  Gently, we adjusted it
around her form, and I helped her pull the laces tight in the back, tying a neat
little bow at the bottom.  She turned around.  I was staring at someone who was
no, not large, but larger-than-life.  Like a movie star, princess, or
seductress, my friend could have enchanted anyone into serving her for whatever
purposes she desired.

And in fact, hadn’t I played the part of
servant, helping her into her clothes?  Really—isn’t that the way it should have
been?  She was what I dreamed of being—bold, beautiful, rounded in all the right
places, soft to the touch, but strong too.  She was what all women dreamed of
being, which was any man’s fantasy—but a real, tangible, in-the-flesh female

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